What happens when we listen to someone we believe we could never understand? Just over 20 years ago I had the extraordinary experience of sitting in a room with Jo Berry and Patrick Magee – Jo, whose father was killed in the Brighton Bomb of 1984, and Patrick, the man who planted the bomb. Their story of meeting, talking, listening and finding a way to campaign for peace changed my viewpoint from black and white to multi-colour.
October is the anniversary of the Brighton Bombing, and Jo and Pat continue to share their story and ask people to listen to each other. Their courage, and their work for peace, has stayed with me. So has the question: are you listening? Because when there is conflict, we tend to think of two sides – one right and one wrong. Yoga offers us another possibility: it teaches us to pause, listen and respond from the present moment rather than react from our thoughts, judgements and habits. Maybe if we did that just 1% more of the time, it could change the world.
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